In business, as in life – learning, education, and lessons can come from various, different sources. The important thing is to keep an open, curious mind and constantly ask – “what’s in this for me? What can I learn”? Possibly it was this attitude that propelled great businessmen to the forefront – they were eager to learn, implement those learnings, and prepared to start over if they made a mistake. There are pointers, signs, and lessons all around us. All it takes is a curious, willing heart and an open mind. Even from fiction, cinema, and iconic figures of history – there are many useful lessons to be learned and applied to personal lives or business.
Let us look at Don Vito Corleone – from the famous book by Mario Puzo and subsequently, a cult classic movie: “The Godfather”. The Don has had humble beginnings, and rises to build his own “empire” of people, “soldiers” and “family”. With immense influence in the judiciary, police, the underworld, and in business also.
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What Could Businessmen Possibly Learn From The Don?
1 Always Have a Trusted Advisor
Every single person in the family is in awe of the Godfather and respects him for his role in building the business – he has done it single-handedly. As the domain expert in most aspects of the family business, he knows everything there is to know. But he knows he has gaps in his knowledge. And so, he was clever enough to seek out a dedicated and trusted lawyer – he has himself helped in the grooming, education, and laying the experience base for Tom Hagen, lawyer and advisor to the Corleone family. Tom advises the Godfather on a wide range of issues. Though not a Sicilian or from the family, Tom is one of the few non-Corleones admitted into the inner circle. His trusted advisory status combines with the expertise and the detachment of a non-family member which helps him share difficult truths without any concerns. Lesson: if you want to grow your business, find a trusted advisor outside your organizational circles – to give you unbiased second opinions about the challenges you face.
#2 Begin With Subtle Communication
As a businessman, you should know that communication is where it begins…it is one of the most important skills to have. Most surprisingly, the mafia world also requires subtle communication skills. Those who have watched The Godfather carefully will agree that violence or bullets are rarely the first means of making a point. Quite early in the movie, Don has to put across a point to a powerful, sadistic movie director. He starts by sending Tom Hagen, to gently discuss and make a subtle request. When the request is not granted, the Godfather takes off the glove and uses the mailed fist. Hence, knowing when to escalate a situation into a confrontation is a delicate art that Don mastered throughout his long career. Lesson: Master and perfect the art of communication. As an entrepreneur, you will be communicating with a lot of people daily and you need to know when to use subtle communication skills & when to escalate to the next level to get your work done or to resolve a conflict.
3 Do Favours To Help Build Relationships
Do you recall the time when someone got you an appointment with a banker? Or give you a vital lead about a job offer? The giving and taking of favors is a necessary lubricant that makes relationships run – it helps, sustains, and builds relationships. Giving (and asking) for occasional favors is a key aspect of building relationships and something useful for businesses to network in new normal. The Godfather uses tact, persuasion, and humility to deal with people and dispense favors. Indeed, it is one of the building blocks of his power. Once, he helps out an elderly lady having issues with her landlord – he steps in to “convince” the landlord. This particular relationship would not be profitable for the Godfather – but as an example of how to build and maintain relationships, it is perfect. Lesson: life is a two-way street. People will help you in your hour of need only if they are sure that you will reciprocate when required.
4 Know Your Strengths
It is wiser to judge, evaluate and then take a plunge, rather than rushing into something. For any businessman, taking up new challenges and tasks can be quite demanding. However, if not comfortable with this, take your time, and build your resources. But after a careful review and evaluation, if you feel that you cannot do justice to it, or don’t want to go for it, just say no and give it up. You are the best judge of your strengths. Don Corleone faced a similar challenge when Sollazo “The Turk” asked him for his help to expand his empire to sell illegal drugs. Though the profits that would have resulted were astronomical, the Don refused the deal and to enter the business. For some people, maybe he seemed like too much of a traditionalist who was behind the times. But truth be told, Don made the right decision — expanding into the drug trade would attract just too much-unwanted attention from the authorities. Lesson: when you happen upon an activity that requires a new set of skills, consider carefully before deciding if it makes sense to learn them or not.
